I'm starting to see a parallel between clubs and many of their fans and wives with an abusive husband. All is fine while the wife is doing the cooking, laying it on a plate and so forth, (winning games), but something happens not to the husband's liking and the wife gets beaten to a pulp. The wife is placating (the club says the fans have a right to be angry) and the cycle continues. In the meantime the wife's self-confidence diminishes and she shrinks into herself.
For me, what's more depressing than the recent results, is that the histrionics are already starting: "We need a new manager", Ruddy getting slagged off for a rare spell of poor form in spite of him having stuck with us when he could have been off to Chelsea.
And what about the new manager thing? Do people really believe changing managers every ten minutes gives all the answers? Is it reasonable that Brendan Rodgers, a Swansea hero, the man who took Liverpool back to the Champions League, is now the favourite to be sacked in the Premier League. Is it right that Paul Lambert AKA the Messiah among many Norwich fans, is 'useless' according to AVFC fans having been winless since August after getting off to a flying start (I can think of a certain manager closer to home who can probably sympathise with that)?
So many fans look at other clubs with bemusement at their managerial sackings, yet can't seem to apply the rationale to their own clubs. Am I the only person out there who thinks that maybe it's about time people started looking a little further than the last recent string of results and casting absolute judgements on the managers as a result, only to swing round completely upon the next string of results?
Obviously Norwich is doing things wrong at the moment, but equally it was only 10 games ago that they were doing it right. Is it that unreasonable to work on the premise that they can turn it around without calling in the HR consultants?
I find many of the things you say rational and acceptable. It would be good for managers to be given time to put ideas into place and try new things. I'm all for it.
However, I haven't seen anything from NA to suggest he is doing anything different from Hughton. To be honest, watching us Saturday was a throwback to last season. Trouble is, we are in a lower division. Nine of that team on Saturday were considered good enough by the previous incumbent to be good enough to help the club progress from its 10th place in the Prem. That didn't happen and it isn't a surprise really. This squad is not performing anything like a team that was brought together to succeed.
NA said that he was bringing fresh ideas but also returning to playing the Norwich way. And the opening game of this season left us shocked. There didn't appear to be any change whatsoever. But a bit of luck in the following match saw us score plenty and get three points and we were convinced after the following match, that what we had seen the opening game was nothing more than an aberration. And I cannot believe even the staunchest of those who thought NA's appointment was wrong weren't pleased with the apparent progress.
And now we find ourselves having a poll to see whether we think the manager should be sacked. And what has caused that and instances where I voted YES despite a plea earlier that it was ridiculous to keep changing manager.
The situation that we are still within reach of an automatic place as well as the play offs is no longer an argument as far as I'm concerned. So is two thirds of the division. The Forest game and its aftermath were the crux for me. The ugly defeat at Middlesborough could be thought as a bad day at the office. But what followed was inexcusable.
To lose to Forest in the manner we did and the second half performance itself led me to question the difference, if any, between the football being served up currently and that of last season which at least had the excuse of playing in the Prem. And there was no difference. And the tactics hadn't altered one bit.
But at least give the bloke a chance with the two home games to come against faltering opposition. He will have learnt from the last two horror shows and a new Norwich will play against Brighton. But it didn't and the tactics were the same.
OK then, one last chance against Reading. He has made a couple of changes. One completely unbelievable in putting Martin back to CB but one good in dropping an out of form Grabban and giving Hooper a chance. Hang on, look at the subs. Two CB's!! and only two attacking players in a game that must be won. Won well of course but the minimum is a win.
We were dire for much of that game. Reading sussed us out and sat back and took a chance. And good luck to them, it paid off. But to be honest, they didn't look in trouble. I don't recall a backs to the wall Rorkes Drift performance from them. Murphy wasn't deemed good enough to start when the game was even at 0-0 but is thrown on when we are losing. Howson was having a stinker with his corners and free kicks but our best set play taker, O'Neill comes on with little time left.
He hasn't changed a thing. And players who came away from last season with a bit of success are now being hounded by the crowd and resorting to silly social media.
No, the managerial merry go round is not ideal or good. (And I must admit that I find it strange that the managers association is full of blokes who are full of sorrow when a manager is sacked, but can't wait to take the job when offered. Strong union that one.) And I am all for new managers being given time to impose their ideas. But not when all they are doing is talking it up but in fact jut serving up the same old thing.